Want to Feel Better? Sing

Why singing together heals the mind and heart

by Linda Silbert

There’s something uniquely powerful about singing together. Whether it’s in a choir, around a dinner table, a place of worship, or even at a concert, shared singing creates an instant sense of connection. And that connection is deeply nourishing for mental and emotional health.

Singing in general has mind and body benefits like improving breathing, posture, and muscle tension, as well as stimulating the brain, according to research from the University of Oxford. Singing in a group takes those same benefits while helping to create bonds among the songbirds. Group singing releases endorphins and oxytocin—the “feel-good” and bonding hormones—which can lift mood, ease feelings of loneliness, and foster trust. This creates a sense of belonging. You don’t need a perfect voice—just a willingness to join in. The benefits come not from performance, but from participation.

Emotionally, singing gives voice to what we sometimes struggle to express in words. Joy, grief, hope, and love can all be safely felt and shared through song. Doing this in a group reminds us that we’re not alone in our emotions; others are feeling them too. That shared experience can be profoundly comforting and validating.

In a world where many people feel isolated, singing together is a simple, ancient practice that restores connection, uplifts the spirit, and reminds us of our shared humanity. It’s just what our neighbors on Sesame Street were telling us half a century ago. Just sing, sing a song…

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Linda Silbert has been a Pilates instructor for over 25 years. She works with numerous chiropractors and medical doctors, and incorporates rehabilitation into her Pilates teaching. Linda has completed additional Pilates workshops focused on scoliosis, osteoporosis, prevention of sports injuries, pelvic floor strength, and recovery from strokes. She is currently a Pilates instructor at Club Pilates in Chicago.